{"id":960,"date":"2020-11-25T14:50:31","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T20:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/?p=960"},"modified":"2020-11-25T14:50:31","modified_gmt":"2020-11-25T20:50:31","slug":"empowering-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/?p=960","title":{"rendered":"Empowering Women"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh6.googleusercontent.com\/TFglJX5_dAmUfEFB5trFH_39QQIcZI7-odRqFpg0O3PjnVmPaFvjafmRQXmuVJjAGMRHe5H-a4BkRCZEPw9tlI4wlLdfD1m5JkMIt2E9x134q5IZXigpO3C3A0FgCKZfV6dmFX9Q\" alt=\"Hand reaching to place sticky note on refrigerator with the words Be Yourself and Get Shit Done!\"\/><figcaption>Photo by Cottonbro<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By Andrea Baumann<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhen women do better, countries do better, communities do better, and families do better\u201d \u2014 USAID<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Empowerment:<\/strong> \u201c<em>The process of gaining freedom and power to do what you want or to control what happens to you<\/em>\u201d \u2014 Cambridge Dictionary<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Women can move beyond the domestic sphere through empowerment:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once upon a time, women fought through legal means for \u201ccivil rights\u201d to obtain equality. This equality was to extend to every person within the democratic nation. But, now women can push beyond just legal means for empowerment, they can take back their stories and move away from powerlessness.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gaining equal rights and gaining admittance into once \u201cmale-only\u201d arenas, is not the equivalent of empowerment. A career woman who also juggles daycare, essentially pulling double-duty, is not empowerment. It is just double the duties and double the responsibilities, meanwhile their male counterpart position hasn\u2019t changed. Because this is typically a personal battle for women, it is not supported by society or their individual partners. This makes the transition from burden to empowerment difficult.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cLiberal feminism advocates political equality and individual liberty\u201d (Roland-Serdar). If one is secure with themselves, only then can they make the choice to become empowered through utilization of their rights. The new concept for women empowerment is to take ownership of self development. Women need to construct and define their own sense of gender identity, their own political identity, and their own choices. Powerlessness comes from becoming subordinate in public and private to their partners and men in general.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/sB2Cp2sN43JRMdIOOn64bGcNqP_J5zIyTql6uIAycMeL9w01PwXd0jL_43x-XKBI-DmrS4ibC8KyW3UiA_dONpOo1Ft1qHmNWYs2Q1HgnQ0nc1ew1CcxHjR7Ge5HHTIJfTlaULC9\" alt=\"Woman chemist with test tubes and microscope nearby\"\/><figcaption>Photo by Chokniti Khongchum<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Powerlessness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The devaluation of women through cultural norms is perpetuated within family, foundational messages, and society. One might think that within a family there would be a safe and harmonious place; however, this is where the subordination of women is typically the harshest. Women were expected to support their male partner\u2019s views in politics, religion, and domestic policies and were viewed as subordinate inhabitants and any contributions by women was disregarded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Culturally, it is communicated that women have a \u201cproper\u201d place. Even though women are achieving more equality and equal rights, they are still powerless due to this component. The deeper this message, the harder it is for women to envision empowerment. The belief of a \u201cproper\u201d place is so embedded in society, women struggle between rights and responsibilities as they relate to relationships and men. Now that the United States of America has Kamala Harris, female vice president-elect, sitting in a very powerful and visible position in the government, I am hopeful that the message that women are strong and capable will help to eliminate this \u201cproper\u201d place mentality.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another issue causing the feeling of powerlessness among women is that when a woman decides to stay at home she begins to feel that she has no rights or control of her life. Her livelihood is dependent on her male partner, who leads their public life. The difficult task of being the domestic partner is not valued in society, and thus, causes conflict for women.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Resolving the Conflict<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A female child learns that her sexuality becomes part of her identity and her sexual needs are at the service of powerful men. Girls are taught to be nice and that their clothing and appearance is of paramount importance. These cultural norms lead female children to obsess over body image which can lead to eating disorders. The female child is thus denied the ability to forge her own path and transform her life according to her own vision.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Talk to your children and have a conversation about what is wrong with advertisements that use sex and sex appeal to sell their product<\/li><li>Tell your daughter how smart she is, rather than how pretty her dress is<\/li><li>Show your daughter that women are strong leaders, scientists, business owners, athletes, politicians\u2026. The list is boundless.<\/li><li>Reinforce the fact that women define themselves, they do not need a man to define who they are<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The female child is conditioned to be dependent on men as a survival mechanism which feeds into her self-worth. But, we can stop this. This conditioning is passed down from generation to generation, but it doesn\u2019t have to be. Raise your daughter to be independent and strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Overcoming the helplessness and the conditioning that women are dependent on men for self-worth is the first step toward reclaiming the self. This is how women can resolve the conflict toward empowerment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Reclaiming Self<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh6.googleusercontent.com\/CWGJ_957h8N2wWNasCoAlXa09k6zGoT982IFdn9A_59UHomIG3HDRNTt5NJYAnH6UOA2qBp55wqJDsEdUTNywl0nwQhCGlZH0oTE0R8z7WNA6wiyKptMtOAw60JSRf1yDwpVGa4Q\" width=\"223\" height=\"330\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Think of life as a story book and every day the story of self is unfolding. Embrace the story of your life, from the beginning until today. The past is the past and has become a part of you. But, choose how your story will unfold from here on out. Make choices and criticize practices that lead to powerlessness. Choose to alter your course and take charge of your story. Actively have those conversations with family, friends, and partners regarding helplessly dependent and raising their awareness of how words and actions have an impact on women and female children.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Empower young girls by telling them how smart they are and that they make great decisions, rather than how cute they are. Empower young girls by telling them how strong they are in the face of being bullied, or how strong they are for helping a friend, rather than how pretty their dress is. Empower young girls by telling them how fearless they are, instead of how the \u201cprince\u201d will come to their rescue.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One Conversation in Reclaiming Myself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">About a year ago, I had a boyfriend ask me to model a new outfit I\u2019d purchased. When I declined.&nbsp; Frustrated he shot back with, \u201cThen, how am I supposed to tell you how great you look?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puzzled, I replied, \u201cI don\u2019t need you to tell me how great I look.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen why am I here if you don\u2019t need me?\u201d He seemed genuinely confused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I said, \u201cYou are here because I love you, not because I need you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/gepdGcF8jsWe75nq5n9T7W2EYrxceezo47uRbQo_0cDCKMjmKMS4xWKFn-cmPLNHCw3V-yA60HUQ5zV1ExrHgHDUwITxScSjW179iWsOQf3vnj30qvgd5YQTA2peZONeXbMKLidx\" alt=\"Woman of color wearing a white top is sitting on a couch writing in a booklet of some sort perhaps studying material\"\/><figcaption>Photo by Karolina Grabowska<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Author\u2019s shoutout:<\/strong> I would like to take this opportunity to thank authors Rowland-Serdar and Schwartz-Shea of \u201cEmpowering Women: Self, Autonomy, and Responsibility\u201d as I learned so much about reclaiming myself. Much of what I learned and wrote about here today is based on extensive research and formulated in their paper. They are referenced below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cambridge Dictionary. Cambridge University @Cambridge University Press 2020. <a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/\">https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/<\/a> &#8211; Accessed 11 Nov. 2020.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rowland-Serdar, Barbara, and Peregrine Schwartz-Shea. \u201cEmpowering Women: Self, Autonomy, and Responsibility.\u201d <em>The Western Political Quarterly<\/em>, vol. 44, no. 3, 1991, pp. 605\u2013624. <em>JSTOR<\/em>, www.jstor.org\/stable\/448671. Accessed 11 Nov. 2020.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>USAID<\/em>. Updated 17 September 2020. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usaid.gov\/empowering-women-and-girls-\">https:\/\/www.usaid.gov\/empowering-women-and-girls-<\/a> Accessed 11 Nov. 2020.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/mother-kissing-her-child-on-the-beach-5712232\/\">https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/mother-kissing-her-child-on-the-beach-5712232\/<\/a> Olya Kobruseva<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/woman-in-white-top-writing-5311617\/\">https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/woman-in-white-top-writing-5311617\/<\/a>&nbsp; Karolina Grabowska<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/person-holding-white-and-pink-sticky-notes-3831846\/\">https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/person-holding-white-and-pink-sticky-notes-3831846\/<\/a> Cottonbro<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/scientist-working-in-laboratory-3938023\/\">https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/scientist-working-in-laboratory-3938023\/<\/a> Chokniti Khongchum<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Andrea Baumann \u201cWhen women do better, countries do better, communities do better, and families do better\u201d \u2014 USAID Empowerment: \u201cThe process of gaining freedom&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=960"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/960\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":961,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/960\/revisions\/961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wowfall2020.londietmartin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}